Do your parents already know?

everyone ive told was shocked, my dad included:/ even my gay friend who has an awesome gaydar couldnt tell... i guess i just dont give off 'the vibe'

 

haha, same, ikr?? i mean come on at least bring it up in conversation, im dying here!

 

Everyone was completely shocked. In fact, my mother didn't believe it for a while because she couldn't tell at all the whole time I was growing up.

 

I think my mom has always had an inkling, though I don't know about my dad. If he suspects or has suspected anything, he certainly hasn't ever let it on that he does, and he generally doesn't like to talk to me about things that would get either of us upset.

 

I haven't come out to my parents but they've hinted about it in the past - way before I even found out I'm gay.

 

I'm not out to my parents yet, but I believe they do suspect. My mom has made some "references" so to speak that really make me wonder what she means.

 

Yeah, my parents know. They weren't really that shocked...

 

I never truly came out to my Mother, or my Aunt.

My Mom came up to me and asked me straight out if I was going out with my girlfriend. Sure I had said I was Bi-Curious before to my Mom, and that I liked my girlfriend, but I think she knew.

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My parents, well nobody, had any idea I was gay until I came out.

 

My mom found out last week . She told me I couldn't stay in the house any longer. so I went to stay with my cousin . My brother came for me and told me he loves me and he'll protect me and brought me back home. it's tough here but I'm learning to be strong. I'm just glad that I can be myself now . That I don't have to pretend to be hetero anymore.

 

I'm somewhat out, except for the part that I'm transgender. They think I'm a lesbian because of the way I dress, which I'm not...but they pretty much know I'm not straight.

 

Done in tears to my mom when I was 23. She said she was going to tell my Dad.

I was the one that was the most in shock I have to say.

I think it took them a bit of time to adjust but eventually, it's for the better.

My advice? Come out sooner rather than later so you can move on with your life. Otherwise, you're getting stuck with this big elephant in the room.

 

I think they kinda know but just cant put it all together its really annoying -.- They should just ask outright would be so much better.

 

Just because they don't ask doesn't mean they won't be surprised. They might just be respecting you and when you feel most comfortable about it. Regardless, it doesn't really matter whether they already know or not. It's up to you about telling them so you can move on with your life. Best not to guess and just say it.

 

Hell no -- my parents have no clue.

No one that I'm close to has any idea at all.

 

I plan on not telling them, once I go away for university that will be it....I hope because we have a very close-nit society that loves to gossip -.-