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Gay bar

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by alwayshope11, May 11, 2012.

  1. alwayshope11

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    So...I'm gonna do it..go to a gay bat. I've met a local gay guy and have been talking to him for a few weeks now and have met up with him and he's a lot of fun and invited me to go to one with him....I'm scared sh'''less lol..but I just feel like I need to rip off the band aid..I'm scared I may see someone I know (since I'm only out to a group of people) but I figurenthe chances r slim n if I do, they will be gay also and respect my privacy..what I'm going through. I hope it goes well and that it helps me accept who I am more,
     
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    Best of luck, hope you have a good time! :slight_smile:
     
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    Going to a gay bar has go to be one of the few things I dont think I could bring myself to do. Have fun though.
     
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    Have fun and good luck! :slight_smile:
     
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    It was a great time! It felt so good to just be myself no matter what n not have to worry about what people around me think! Ripping off the band aid was a good idea!
     
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    Glad you had a good time! Good thing you did have a good time or else you'd probably be wary to ever go back
     
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    Yea probably!(!)
     
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    Did it turn out as you expected or was it comepletely different? Did anyone hit on you? ^^
     
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    Gay bars are such a fun time. It's almost like there's an expectation of understanding that makes it so much easier. My first experience, I met the supplier of the alcohol for the bar and he bought me a couple shots... and he grabbed my ass at the end of the night... And my car got towed... Still, it was a fantastic evening!
     
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    That's awesome, good for you! Did you talk to your friend the whole time, or did you talk to anyone else? I've been to a few bars now but always end up sticking with the people I came with.
     
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    It was different! I thought it was gonna be some big scary place but it wasnt. No one hit on me lol but I danced with a few guys!

    ---------- Post added 14th May 2012 at 07:07 PM ----------

    I talked with a few other people..it wasn't very crowded though! Which I think was good for my first time lol