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Break Ups...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by squally89, May 15, 2012.

  1. squally89

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    I think we all have experienced break ups before (platonic or non-platonic) and I want to create this thread to remind ourselves these things. Please join me and write your own reminders you like to remind someone when they experience a break up.

    Just because he/she broke up with you doesn't mean you're....
    1.) a bad person or that there's something wrong with you
    2.) ugly
    3.) bad in bed
    4.) not "relationship" material
    5.) not intelligent
    6.) not cute enough
    7.) not buff enough
    8.) not hot enough
    9.) not stylish
    10.) not rich

    Most of us during that "awkward break-up conversation" will probably want to ask "Whats wrong with me?" directly or indirectly, however, that question is quite irreverent. The fact they have called, texted or initialed that conversation with you demonstrates some form of thought process and determination to carry that action through.

    There's no need to be with someone who believes in "not being" with you.
     
  2. higby442

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    Great post! Thank you so much!
     
  3. squally89

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    He broke up with me not because I wasn't capable of love.