I had a girlfriend for about a year a few years back I'm 21 now I was probably 19 when she dumped me because she could see something was bothering me and I told her I liked someone else (a female who already had a boyfriend) although really it was a guy friend although I didn't want to admit it to myself at the time. I never slept with her or had any want to, on two fronts I don't like the smell of pussy and I don't trust contraceptives. When I look at it from a purely physical standpoint though I seem to have a greater attraction to men if you give me a stack of images of males and females that are typically considered "Hot" or "Sexy" by general standards there will be more of a physical response to the men. What do you think I might be? are you seeing me as gay or bi?
You didn't talk much about your attraction to women except the whole thing with your ex, so it's hard to tell. What do you think of women? Are you attracted to them at all? Have you ever passed a hot girl and thought, "Damn, I want to have sex with her."? Though if anything, you're either on the gay side of bisexual or gay, because you did mention that you're attracted to men more than you're attracted to women, if that helps. ^^
no not really but if we just count adult entertainment i can get off to straight but seem to pay more attention to what the guy looks like than what the chick looks like. and definitely like two twinks better
I think you might be gay. Especially that you say you don't like vagina and that the woman doesn't really attract you. You say if you look at straight porn you focus more on the guy than the woman, and the fact that you say you like twinks better. If people walk down the street, do you notice the guys? Do you think wow, he's sexy? Does men arouse you? These are some of the typical questions you could ask yourself, it will be easy to get to the conclusion.
If you prefer gay over lesbian porn and focus on the guy in straight porn then, as CrystalRaindrop said, you are at least at the gay side of bisexuality. How would you answer the question if it wasn't about you? Would you say you are gay if you could take an objective view of yourself? Do you notice girls? I found out that sometimes I try to look at girls just because it annoys me when someone says "did you see her?!! wow!" and I have no idea what they are talking about Generally, I notice even average guys from a hundred metres and I am completely unaware of beautiful women until I almost bump into them. Just not a part of the landscape for me.
I know where you're coming from about being gay/ bi, ecause that's what I'm trying to work through right now too. Can you tell at all were you more interested in the guy than your ex because he was a guy and you liked thy more or if you just liked his personality more than hers. If gender played a role in it than you're more likely gay. If it was just that you "clicked" better with him and gender didn't affect it than you're more likely bi. I realize it's really hard to tell these things about yourself, but maybe try talking it out with yourself. Probably away from other people because you will look crazy but literally talk to yourself about it. Then you are removing yourself from the situation and can see it more objectively. Or maybe not, but talking to myself helps me with lots of things. And no I'm not schizophrenic.
@rx79g I've known him a lot longer and we've always been good friends but I just saw him for the first time in about a year tonight and he had quite a bit of hair on his face which kinda turned me off but he's what I've always kinda based my guys off of as far as general type on the other side with her I met her in school she was a senior and I was a junior in the same technical program and we got along as friends in fact were still friends kinda I talk to her online every once and a while I'm one of those if I'm not at work than I'm sitting in front of a computer (aka I don't have any friends that I go out with and do things on a regular basis
