I know you will never know 100% until the guy tells you, but, there's this guy(Henry) who is only in one of my class periods who I really can't stop thinking about. We don't talk or anything but there's something about him that always keeps me watching and observing him(he's prolly the first guy I like, like). I also think he's gay/bi because I see him stare at guys, looking at them from top to bottom like he's seeing what they're wearing. Since I'm kinda sorta in the closet, I see a lot of myself in Henry which I also find telling. Latley I've been trying to grow some balls and talk to him, but I never can't seem to do it. Mostly because I have no idea how I can talk to him without coming across weird or have no idea how I can talk to him and keep the conversation going any good ideas for convo starters? ..some advice would be greatly appreciated lol. Also, what are some signs that a guy is in the closet? To you guys/girls out there that have some tips, ideas, or signs and can share them that would be nice.
You can't know whether someone is queer or not until they choose to tell you, and they almost never choose to tell you unless you are out to them as queer in some way. I don't believe in gaydar. Conversation starters can be anything, it depends on how well you know him, where you know him from and so on. If he were talking to you, what would you expect him to talk about? What would you want him to talk about?
