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You're probably bi if _____

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by JillandJill, May 24, 2012.

  1. JillandJill

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    I'm looking for key ways to identify as a lesbian vs. bisexual
     
  2. LailaForbidden

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    You like both men and women? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    lol I was about to say the same thing. That's the only difference between a lesbian and bisexual.
     
  4. JillandJill

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    Wellllllll yeah I understand that but then I suppose my real question is... define "Like"

    I know it's complicated, and nobody can tell me what I feel.
    Sometimes I find guys physically attractive. But I don't want a relationship or sex from them. But sometimes my body gets turned on by guys while my mind is almost grossed out...
     
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    I struggle with this as well. i dont know... maybe we are suffering from denial? maybe we are bi, but don't want to be. Somewhere in the middle? I honestly dont know. If you want to talk to someone about it you can message me. maybe we can figure it out together?
     
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    ...if you can picture yourself waking up next to a woman / picture yourself in a relationship with a woman yet you're equally attracted to men and can just as easily picture yourself in both situations with a man. That's the simplest way I can explain it :thumbsup: