I was wondering for people who identify as mostly gay or mostly lesbian, if you were to be in a relationship with the opposite sex, including sexually how woulld you feel? Would it make you anxious?
no not at all i am being more anxious when something happens like me being gay when the others know i cant think what will they do to me ! but i wont be anxious ,maybe i will be a bit when i will start the relationship !
I've been debating this myself, as I am not out yet and still have guys interested in me... what would happen if I tried it out with one of them? I think it would probably just make me uncomfortable.... or just indifferent. I think the relationship would lack the passion and excitement it needs to stay alive.
Well, I am still questioning and at the moment I feel more like a lesbian. I still like boys and to be honest, I quite like a boy whom I could be in a relationship, I guess, because we are pretty close and I think he has some feelings for me. But, I wouldn't date him, because of these few reasons: 1. I have have had a very strong crush on a different person (same sex) for almost three years now and despite the fact that I know it is almost impossible for us two to be together (there is a huge age gap between us, besides she is straight and has children), I would feel like I have betrayed her (even though she doesn't even know I go for girls and am in love with her). 2. If I dated him, my family and friends wouldn't probably even think I could be a lesbian and I want them to suspect it. Dating a boy would totally ruin it. 3. Sometimes I think about sex with a boy and I find it exciting, but I think I couldn't do it, because at the same time I find penises kind of gross (no offense, guys). Weird, I know. So yeah, I would probably feel uncomfy in a straight relationship. Furthermore, I would like to be the "man" in a relationship... I would go out with a gay boy/man maybe
