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ex wont leave me alone

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by ems, Jun 2, 2012.

  1. ems

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    My ex boyfriend which I split up with months ago won't leave me alone, I've been polite but won't het the message. I dont really wanna tell him I'm lesbian . Any advice on how to get through to him will be greatly received .
     
  2. if he doesnt get the message and you have repeatedly told him then sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.
     
  3. silverhalo

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    Its tough if you dont want to actually tell him you are gay. Perhaps just ignoring his calls, texts and communication will help him get the message.
     
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    I saw this post and it just made me smile cause my ex is the same!!! Haha, except I'm not a lesbian so situation is a bit different. I tried being nice too but he kept bugging me for 8 months after we broke up!!! We only dated for 6! :frowning2: I'm really not that much of a catch.

    Eventually though, I had to be mean to get him off my back. I agree with the posts above, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
     
  5. ems

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    Thanks for the advice .