So today at softball practice I was hanging out in the out field with one of my friends M, and we talked about a lot of different things. Some how things like sex and gay people came up. She was saying how she didn't know anyone who was gay and I was like, "you probably know someone, their probably just not out." She sorta agreed with that and I felt like I was about to tell her that I am. I don't think she would mind that I am a lesbian but the two people I have told were like my best friends, and while M and I talk a bunch during softball and I really like hanging out with her, we aren't that close cause we only met in like March. I feel like I have almost come out to some people on my softball team, but I feel like I would rather come out to people I am really close to/known for a while first, and then to people I don't know as well later. Did you come out to people you were really close with first and then other people. Or did you just sorta come out to whoever?
I came out to a friend's friend i never met on fb, and she freinded me only because my pix was hot female and she was lesbian. i told her not to tell our friend, but no, i am not a lesbian, i am transgender. but unfortunately, she was not a great person, we are not friends anymore, she only wanted sexual desires fulfilled and i would not be able to do that for her. but the next person was a friend who is gay, and he knew me like siblings close for several years. so he was thrilled for me. third person was a deaf straight man also saw my pix fb and was a perv who just wanted sexual gratification, i told him he must be gay, i am transgender. so nope, i told 2 people out of 3 so far that i never met, and never will. but all three i did on fb not face to face. and only one will i see face to face. i may be coming out to a whole group face to face tomorrow!
that sucks about the first one and the third one, but that is great about the second one. good luck if you tell a group of people tomm.
Thanks. I am trying to see if I can get myself to attend a LGBTQ group on campus, but a straight friend from India wants to meet up tomorrow afternoon too...so depends on time of group and her, destiny awaits...
well best of luck to ya, my cousin and i may have another work out session this weekend so i am trying to work up the gut to tell her then. she would be the first in my family i would tell...
