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I did it! First date

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by tayana, Jan 14, 2008.

  1. tayana

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    I went out with the lovely lady I met and we had a very good time. We're just taking thing slow and being friends right now, but everything was wonderful. Thanks for everyone's help.
     
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    Good for you, I am so glad things went well. (*hug*)
     
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    Congratulations! I am happy to hear it went well. Good luck and keep us posted.
     
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    that's great!!!!!!
     
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    Good to hear!

    What did you do for the date and on the date?
     
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    Great!! One small step for a woman.One giant step for.............?
     
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    She felt more comfortable bringing her kids, so we took the kids to a place called "Planet Fun" that had arcade games and climbing walls, slides and tubes and things. We chatted while the kids played. I was SOOOO nervous that I couldn't even eat. By the time it was time to go, I'd relaxed though.

    She brought me a rose, and said that she really liked me. So I think we'll definitely be seeing each other again.
     
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    That's so cool... good luck :slight_smile:
     
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    That's so awesome! Congratulations!
     
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    Awwww. I'm getting all warm and fuzzy now (*hug*)
     
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    awwww she brought a rose........ i have always wanted someone to give me a rose...... it is not to gay to people who don't want to see over the top lol i would love a rose on a date lol
     
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    Thanks for all the good wishes.

    We might have to stop the late night phone conversations though, or I might die of chronic sleep deprivation . . .

    It was so much fun though, talking on the phone. Who knew.
     
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    wow. lucky you. have the best of fun with her.
     
  15. Ilayis

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    Hey cool you had a good time and things are working
     
  16. Kovax14

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    thats awesome!

    lol as a side note, when i first saw this post i mistook it for "I did it on the first date" and it really caught my attention haha
     
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    awww im so happy for you!!!!!! :slight_smile:
     
  18. tayana

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    LOL! I couldn't have done it on the first date. I was so nervous, I couldn't eat. I also managed to make myself sick by the evening. I had a great time, but the anxiety caught up with me.

    We're getting together again tonight, and I think the nerves might be a little more under control.
     
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    Congratulations! I'm glad you seem to have hit it off! Being gay can be a very isolating and lonely experience for some people, so it makes it even more special when we find someone that we enjoy being with. I'm really happy for you!
     
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    This is brilliant!! I am so ecstatic for you!! I really, really, really hope that it all just gets better and better!!

    It's so nice to get news like this, because of all the problems that gay people have in *finding* someone gay, and then the relationship actually *working*. This is brilliant, and I hope you're very happy together.