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QUICKLY, should I or should I not?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Sayu, Jun 20, 2012.

  1. Sayu

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    So, one fan site on Facebook posted this picture a while ago.

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    I would like to share it but I don't know if that's a good idea, because I have my mum in friends and I'm not out to her. Well, she isn't against gays and she knows I've had a gay friend (online), but I'm still not sure. I want to do it tho.

    Is it a good idea? I wrote QUICKLY, because I am staying at my grandparents today (I probably wouldn't have the guts to do it if I were at home) :icon_redf
     
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    You can always block your mother from seeing it, but everybody else would still see it.
     
  3. xXPsychedelicXx

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    Yup, just block your mom from seeing it. Facebook has that option now.
     
  4. Ianthe

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    You don't have to be gay to support gay rights.

    Just post it.
     
  5. Sayu

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    The thing is, I want my mum to see it :grin: I'm just too afraid...
     
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    Well, it's up to you. If you post it, your mom probably will start to wonder about your sexuality (but it seems like that's what you want her to do). It actually might be a good thing. If she suspects that you're gay, then it won't be as much of a shock when you get around to telling her.
     
  7. Sayu

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    bob94 - Well, I guess she's been already wondering... for like few years maybe? :grin:
     
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    She knows. She's your MOTHER for cryin' out loud. Trust me, she knows. Post it. It's time you two had a chat. Good luck, oh hell, it'll be fine.
     
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    Do it! It's a great idea. It could also bring you a step closer to coming out to your mom (assuming you are ready and want to...)
    Good luck! :slight_smile:

    King x
     
  11. Sayu

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    I did it... thank you for encouraging me, guys! (&&&) Hope it'll be okay :slight_smile:
     
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    Im sure it will be fine, as the others have said you dont have to be gay to support gay rights.