I've come out as lesbian, but I often pretend that I'm straight because it's easier to get a date. Most guys think that they can turn me straight, which is annoying. I'm okay with being gay, but I'm starting to grieve over my heterosexual lifestyle. I'm highly attracted to women only btw; however, whenever I get serious with someone I self sabotage myself...help?!
What exactly is bothering you? If guys are bothering you, just remind them that they don't have a chance. Be all like: "Hey, who you think you are? Coming around here acting like a BA. I'd just walk away before things get outta control."