So I am really confused, am I lesbian or straight? Lately I have wondered if I am gay. I have seen some lesbian couples on tv and I thought what if I am lesbian? Here's some reasons why I think I'm gay When I were little I just hung out with boys. I said girls were hot instead of pretty like the rest of the girls. I am turned on by lesbian porn, and if I watch straight porn I just see the girl. I've never been in love with a boy, even though I were in a relationship four six months, but I loved him, just not as I thought. when we broke up I didn't really care. I don't want to have sex with a boy anymore. I have had sex, and a few have tried since then, but I didn't feel comfortable with them at all in that way. we're really good friends but I just can't. I see a girl on the street and think "Damn! she's HOT!" My celebrity crush is a woman. So I think I'm gay. I don't know! What do you think?
Well, you do sound like you may be gay. I don't know for sure, being you only told some things. But you don't seem sexually attracted to guys at all, although I'm not sure if you're at all romantically attracted to them. Don't be too hung up on labels right now, they're not all that important, and time will make it more clear. But I do think that you have a good chance that you're gay on what you posted.
Possibly, if you experienced with a male and felt no satisfaction whatsoever, then yeah..you're probably lesbian. But we can't notify that for you, it all depends how you feel. If you think you are, chances are you possibly are.
All the things you said indicate that you're probably gay.But there's nobody else who can answer that, except for you. Give it some time and you'll see.
Hi, Welcome to Empty Closets! I think that you are gay. I also think that you already know that. You are in denial, but really you know. That's why you have to come on here and say a bunch of reasons why you are gay, and have us tell you even though the conclusion is obvious. You aren't having a problem with knowing, just with allowing yourself to know and accept the truth. You think women are hot and you don't want to have sex with boys anymore because you didn't like it--you just don't feel that way about them. That is pretty much the definition of a lesbian.
Hey I agree that it sounds like you are gay. Perhaps you could try having a 'gay day' just get up in the morning tell yourself 'I am gay, and its ok to be gay' just enjoy the day, enjoy looking at women and thinking gay thoughts and see how you feel.
