Hey, ever since I was young, I knew I was gay. I am now 15, and I recently came out as gay to everyone, and have loved being widely accepted for being gay, and enjoy it. However, I have noticed I have started to get a slight sexual attraction to women. I am pretty sure that I have a greater sexual attraction to men than I do women. However, I am not emotionally attracted to women at all. Only to men. Could anyone help me out? I really don't want any attracted to women, kind of erotic huh?
Happens to me all the time man. I am as gay as they come (even thought im not out) and every now and then I cant help myself from staring at a girl. You will learn to ignore it after a little while.
By emotionally attracted, I mean romantically. ---------- Post added 5th Jul 2012 at 05:26 PM ---------- Thanks Jack, you're a lot of help. ---------- Post added 5th Jul 2012 at 05:28 PM ---------- Bump, still looking for opinions -
Well, if you want to have a fancy label, you could call yourself a homoromantic bisexual. You're emotionally/romantically attracted to guys only, and sexually attracted to both in some way. What makes you think you're sexually attracted to women? Do you get turned on by seeing one naked? Does the thought of having sex with one seemed appealing to you?
It's not seeing one naked, it's just being the masculine one in the relationship and sort of dominating? But the thing is, im not attracted to feminine men.
You can find that with a guy =) I'm not feminine but, I love taking on the more submisive role in a relationship.
Don't worry about not being attracted to the famine men, I'm not either. Plus I don't believe that a relationship has a Dom and a sub. We are both people and both have a leadership role we take on. Being there for the other when there down.
Straight porn has dicks in it. That's probably what's doing it. I doubt that you are bi. You've just figured out that as a gay man, you can still have sex with women and still get pleasure from it. But that seems to be all you can get. Also... don't be so afraid to indulge the wandering fantasy. Lightning won't strike you down. You see, straight men pretend that they absolutely cannot have sex with other men because we live in a homophobic society, and if any of them were to admit their full capabilities--like that one experiment they did when they were drunk in college, they would be labeled queer and ridiculed for it. You do not need to behave as the mirror opposite of that. You're already gay. You can do whatever the fuck you want, secure in the knowledge that you're as gay as the ocean is wet.
