Hey Everyone, I am new to EC and I just wanted some support on something. Please tell me if I am posting it in the wrong spot I have known fully that I am gay for about a year now, and I have been SLOWLY telling my closest friends that are all girls most are gay themselves. They have been such a help to me getting through this. I have never really felt a need for a relationship until now, I have finally came true to myself and I want to share a real relationship with someone. Sadly all of the out gays at my school are just plain mean, but I did meet this guy from an outside activity. He is really nice and funny about everything, he was a joy to be around. I felt connected but, the fact is he isnt out yet, but I know he is gay by the way he presents hinself. I am just too afraid to talk and speak up and have a conversation with him. You might write back there is so many fish in the sea but he means the world to me. He really hasnt made a move with me but I have definitely tried my best to flirt as much as possible with him, with no luck. I just want him to notice that I am here, hell for all I know he might not be gay. Should I risk asking and then receive rejection or regret? If anyone has any thoughts on that I just feel right now I am at a point of lonlieness and sadness that I just dont feel like anyone is going to appriciate who I am. Am I going to fast? I just really dont know. My brain over analyzes way too much and maybe I am just missing the big picture. <__> Any help or any thoughts would be great, by the looks of past posts you sure do have things to say
First off, hi and welcome Second, the only way you will find out is if you come out to him, trust me it will save you a lot of time and stress. If you already came out to him, and he was ok with it, then I would keep flirting with him and if the conversation leads that way, tell him you like him. Third, I don't mean to sound mean or anything, but just because someone presents themselves a certain way doesn't mean they are that.
