1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Today's the day...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by King, Jul 13, 2012.

  1. King

    King Guest

    I'm coming out to my brother!
    I'm nervous as all hell. It won't be for another 13 hours but I'm still freaking out. He's the last person I need to tell before I can tell everyone. I'm excited but still nervous even though my oldest brother told me that my other brother (sorry, so many uses of the word 'brother') would be okay with it.
    This is the first time I ever planned a day to come out to someone, and even then it's just because I know I'll see my brother (I haven't come out to him yet because it's difficult to see him).
    Any advice or words to keep me calm? :K
    Wish me luck while I spend the next 13 hours panicking. :thumbsup:

    King xx
     
  2. Night Rain

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 27, 2012
    Messages:
    1,647
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Asia
    Good luck, although you will not need it! You'll do fine!:icon_wink
     
  3. xramonx

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jul 3, 2012
    Messages:
    31
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    São Paulo
    OMG King Hope everything goes Well,
    and after it finally happens Please Update us here on EC!
    Good Luck Sweetie!
     
  4. RueBea85

    RueBea85 Guest

    Joined:
    Jun 17, 2012
    Messages:
    638
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    I'm Canadian eh?
    Good luck to you!! I hope everything goes well for you!!
     
  5. BudderMC

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 8, 2010
    Messages:
    3,148
    Likes Received:
    2
    Location:
    Ontario, Canada
    Do it do it do it do it do it!
     
  6. Lad123

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 7, 2012
    Messages:
    525
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    England
    Best of luck to you!!! :slight_smile:
     
  7. Sayu

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Mar 2, 2012
    Messages:
    511
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Europe
    Oh, you have an amazingly supportive family from what I've read so far :icon_wink I'm sure you'll do fine! Hugs! (*hug*)
     
  8. lonewolf77

    lonewolf77 Guest

    Good luck. Im sure youll do fine.:icon_bigg
     
  9. IrisM

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jul 8, 2012
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Nowheresville, Massachusetts
    Just be yourself. Ask him how he's doing, tell him about how well you are doing. Listen to what he says, and generally be friendly and show him that you care. Then look him in the eyes and tell him.

    I hope it goes well. Best of luck.
    -Iris
     
  10. King

    King Guest

    How unexciting.
    I didn't come out because my brother decided to go out and drink instead. I'll have to tell him tomorrow morning. I'm less than thrilled.

    King.
     
  11. dl72

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 20, 2011
    Messages:
    425
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    Los Angeles, CA
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Good luck. You will be fine and he will be fine with it.
     
  12. Brenny

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 2, 2012
    Messages:
    376
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    US
    Let us know how it goes. Scratch that. It will go well. But I'd still love to hear how things go for ya. (*hug*)