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Well they no I'm this way, but they were never Gunna find out this way

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  1. Jeffhack

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    Um so today my mom came home and was in my room and found something's that would qeustion my sexuality.. After a lot of yelling. She tried to be supportive.. Supportive of me seeing out priest so he's coming to my house right now.... I kinda hate my life but it feels good for her to know
     
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    Just be honest and stand your ground. Don't be argumentative or combatant, but remind yourself that you like who you like, and no amount of religion should change that. Then you can deal with your mom afterwards.

    Good luck.
     
    #2 BudderMC, Aug 1, 2012
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    Well I believe in god. God was in my heart threw my diccisions. He made us in his imagine after all...
     
    #3 Jeffhack, Aug 1, 2012
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    Yes, and he made us bi and gay. And he made animals bi/gay, have you don your research? More than 1500 animal species have at least some homosexuals in them actually pretty much all animals have some gays. Including lions and penguins. And the entire species of bonobos(one of the closest to humans) is bisexual. And a bunch of animals also masturbate. And who created all of us and those animals? God. Case closed!
     
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    Can you get your sister to help you?
     
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  6. Jeffhack

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    Nope but I'm going to stay at my friends for the night but I'm also talking to my therapist
     
    #6 Jeffhack, Aug 1, 2012
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    Did anyone read what I wrote O.O
     
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    I did dude and by the way this is Gunna sound weird I've seen two male dolphins together so yea not that pretty of a sight
     
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    Hey don't wory you'll get through this. It's always darkest before the dawn. Staying a friends tonight is probably best since it'll give both of you some time to calm down and process things.
     
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    Yea... She ended up leaving saying well I guess your the woman no....
     
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    that doesnt make anysense, like i said shes the bad guy from books and movies..........
     
    #11 Dolphinkid, Aug 1, 2012
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    Well let her be like that like that I'm not going to beat myself over it
     
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    Um how old are you? Do you know any member of your family who is gay-friendly? If you do have one relative like that, contact him/her right away and have her talk to your mom, or help you through this. This could easily get out of hand.
     
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    Wow I can't believe she said that. I normally just walk away when people start insulting me, but if I was in your shoes I would have some choice words for your mother.
     
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    um, lol to the dolphin thing
     
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    Why not? It's not like you can tell the difference anyway... Besides, they're animal...
     
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    actually you can, one has a flappy thing......
     
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