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girl crush

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by midnightvanity6, Aug 2, 2012.

  1. midnightvanity6

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    So I was having a conversation with my sister the other day, and she knows I'm bi-sexual, anyway, we where talking about a celebrity, and she said "you have a girl crush on her."
    I know it's an odd thing to be upset by, but it just bothers me.
    A girl crush is when a straight girl, starts falling for another girl, but is still basically straight.
    but for me, when I like a boy or a girl, it doesn't matter, it's a crush, not a "girl crush."
    Maybe it's just my stupid mind that thinks that, but IDK am I over reacting to something that doesn't really matter?:confused:
     
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    Are you sure that's what she meant? Or was she referring to the fact that you have a gay crush on her? She may just not be clear on terminology (a slippery thing anyway).

    You're not being stupid - if it bothers you, it bothers you. If you want to talk to your sister about it, then feel free to bring the subject up - has she been basically supportive otherwise? You might tell her you've been worried she's not taking you seriously and see what she has to say.
     
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    I guess she has been pretty supportive, as far as she doesn't really care that I'm bi.
    But on the same subject, she's very awkward, like I can't talk about girls with her because she just gets awkward and ignores the subject... so I can't really talk to her.... So I don't really want to bring up that it bothers me, because talking about my sexuality, just makes her awkward....