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Need Help To Come Out To My Sister

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by MatthewJS, Aug 10, 2012.

  1. MatthewJS

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    For a while, I wanted to tell my 2nd oldest sister about my sexuality, but I'm afraid another family member will overhear us. My sister said she would 110%(weird but funny) accept me. When are alone, she is either angry or sad. But she is happy when she is with family or fianceè. Need help here! Anything else instead being alone or being very paranoid with her.
     
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    Hi! Sorry you didn't get a response to this sooner!

    I'm not sure I completely understand. Why exactly are you having a hard time talking to your sister alone?

    You could also think about giving her a note that she could read privately, or sending her an email or text message. Would that help?
     
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    I could of thought of that in the first place. Thank you! But my heart would be pounding really hard and fast. I get very scared. I always assume she will give it to another family member.
     
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    Thank you, Ianthe. I wrote a note to her.
     
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    I'm so glad, congratulations! Let us know how it goes!
     
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