I am in a relationship with a guy, but it is not working out any more and I am finding that lesbians are where I am heading but there are none near where I live and I am stuck in staying in the relationship and hurting the man I am with and hurting myself. What do I do, as I am disabled and feel like no lesbian would want me.
First of all - you are not stuck. You can make changes in your life if that's what you want, and if that's what you think is right. And being disabled doesn't mean that nobody will want you. Can you say more about why you feel stuck? Does your boyfriend encourage that feeling, or is this just a sense you have on your own?
Why do you think you are stuck in the relationship? Are you dependent on the man you are with in some way? Why do you think that lesbians would be less likely to be interested in you than men are?
