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In your opinion, how long should a couple be dating before their first kiss?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by AshenAngel, Aug 21, 2012.

  1. AshenAngel

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    My gf and I have been dating off and on for quite a while now, and I've only kissed her on the mouth once. And I caught her by suprise, so it was kind of awkward and short and abrupt, so idk if that even counted... So, just like the title says, Opinions?
     
  2. Lexington

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    That's up to the participants. I know people who won't kiss until they've dated a while, and I know people who won't date until they've slept with them.

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    Its really up to whenever the couple feels ready and comfortable. This would definitely vary on everyone as everyone goes at different paces when in a relationship.
     
  4. its your relationship not anyone elses.
    its up to you both :slight_smile:

    dont worry :slight_smile:
     
  5. Witchcraft

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    I think it's whenever you want it to be :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  6. Annon

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    If everything just works kiss your date goodnight 1st date and walk away. That's what I would do
     
  7. Pain

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    It's a good question! It's all based on what you want, though. It should just be as long as it takes to have an extremely emotional moment with them, I think. I mean, what happened with my boyfriend and me came about like this-- we went to a play, and he started playing with my hand, out of sight, like stroking it. We weren't even dating, and afterwards, he brought it up and I just went to him and embraced him, and our lips eventually met. Make it special :slight_smile: for the both of you :love:
     
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    Well, you're young, so I think it's ok to take things slower than say, two adults would. You should do what you want with each other without feeling like it's something you have to do. If you want it to be less awkward next time, I think a goodnight/goodbye kiss is a good way to go. Lean in slowly so she isn't caught off guard. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm not sure. I mean, I think it kinda depends. I wouldn't mind kissing on, say, a second or third date.