So there´s this guy I like, who acts kind of ga, has alot of gay friends, buu apparently e isn´t gay because he´s always hooking up with random girls and bragging about it. Well I was thinking of coming out to him eventhough he´s straight because he has many gay friends, so Im sure he would be ok with it, and who knows, he might even be bi But the thing is, I was with him the other day, and I couldn´t find the courage to say anything, and then he told me he wanted to teach me how to get girls and stuff, and that we would make a great team getting girls and helpíng each other out, I guess Im one of his only "straight" friends :eusa_liar.... so it got me thinking, if I tell him Im gay, I might dissapoint him or something... what should I do? :help:
Tell him you'll be his wingman, but you aren't going to want his help with the ladies I wouldn't worry about disappointing him though. If he's your friend he likes you for who you are, not because you're "straight". It might be a bonus that he thinks you're straight, but underneath that he still enjoys your company.
It's not really going to get you anywhere by pretending to be straight. It'll just make you more miserable and unhappy. I think when he started talking about being a team and getting girls would have been a great opportunity to clear the air and tell him that you're gay. :eusa_doh: I don't think you'll disappoint him. And if you do, he'll quickly get over it if it really values your friendship. And who knows, if there's a possibility he might be gay like you think, it could make things a lot better once he knows that you're gay for sure.
