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how to tell them?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Adam123, Aug 27, 2012.

  1. Adam123

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    I am currently on a 4 day retreat with my siblings and I'd been planning all year to come out to them here. but tomorrows my last day and I can't make myself do it and it's really upsetting me. I just need to tell them so I can move on with my life, I haven't told anyone but a couple of meaningless acquaintances really and I have no idea how I'm going to say it, it doesn't help that I have an anxiety disorder in the first place. I don't know what I want from this thread I'm just so disappointed in myself and the anxieties just building because I haven't told them as the end of the retreat draws near :tears:
     
  2. Lad123

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    Its ok, nobody is going to think anything less of you if you don't go through with it. How about just telling one for now rather than all of them at the same time? Then at least you have made some progress. How many siblings do you have by the way?
     
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    How about writing it down and then giving them it on paper.