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Guilt after sex

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Olls91, Aug 30, 2012.

  1. Olls91

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    Do any gay guys feel guilty after sex ? I love it during but after I want to leave them to it x
     
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    A couple questions:

    1) Are you out to people about your sexuality?
    2) Are you in relationships with these guys you're sleeping with?
     
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    No I've not been , I am out ish but not totally sure about myself.I keep going back to men as I like kissing them and sex so figure I'm gay so it's all a lot to deal with x
     
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    Be honest with yourself. Do you think that being homosexual, or in a homosexual relationship, or having homosexual intercourse, is in anyway, BAD? Some homosexual are under the pressure of society that has hammering in their mind that being who they are is unacceptable, and thus, they always feel that what they are doing is wrong, and feel guilty for it.

    If this is the case, you need to get yourself used to the idea that being who you are is completely normal and acceptable. A counsellor would help you with this, or maybe just joining a LGBT group.

    Hope you feel better.
     
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    Thanks guys just having a bit of turmoil at the moment x
     
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    Oh yeah, I usually have the same feeling, except I don't wanna "leave them to it", cause I have a boyfriend and usually I just want to cuddle lol. But I definitely feel guilty about the sex itself.
    I think it's all about not truly accepting yourself; if you work on that, the guilt will probably go away too.
     
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    Cheers Justin yer its been hard coming to terms for me x