You guys, I have some big news. (!)I'm a lesbian!(!) I am so happy to finally admit it to myself! But, I have a problem... I came out to my friends and family as pansexual last year (I was confused and I really didn't want to keep hiding that I was questioning). How do I tell them I'm a lesbian? I think it will be easier to come out to my friends than it will be to my family...especially my mom. What should I do?
Well first off congrats on the realization! -Secondly if you just explain to your friends what was going on in your head at the time you said you were pansexual I am sure they will understand, true friends shouldn't care.
Congratulations =] I would say that if you are already out to them as pansexual and they excepted that, they should have no problem understanding that you are lesbian =) Good luck with telling them though!
