Hi All, My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for 4 months. I now have a girlfriend and my attraction to women was a major driving force in me breaking up with him, but we didn't discuss all that, I just knew I had to leave him to figure things out. (I'm a girl, btw) I don't think he knows I have a GF, but he does know I kissed a couple a couple months prior to our breakup. My question is should I tell him? He's a super understanding awesome guy, but almost the time who'd rather just not know. Help?
If you two are still friends, it might make sense, but then again you wouldn't want to rub it in- like pouring salt into an open wound. If you did tell him, it'd be best to do it in person. Maybe take him out for pizza or a movie, something nice like that. Tell him beforehand that you need to talk to him about something important so he's cautious about what's going on. That's all the help I can give, good luck with everything.
