I have recently come to suspect and accept that I like men a lot , I love kissing them , sex and cuddling. Thing is I've never had a proper relationship with a guy so the feelings feel abstract to myself. I always tried to find a girl friend despite having feeling both sexual and emotional for men. I care dearly for girls still though , I really enjoy their company and their beauty and making them laugh , I'm just not sure about sexually. This is due to previous experiences of sex being fun but unfulfilling as well as kissing. When with a guy it feels like the whole 9 yards so to speak when intimate. I've not met a guy yet who I have thought about dating properly , I want to repeat my experience with guys. Over the last 3 years I've been with 4 guys each I felt wonderful with. I guess I have hang ups on relationships with one due to society and accepting that girls will never truly fulfil me. So in short am I gay and just having trouble accepting ? X
It does seem like you are very predominantly homosexual, meaning that you are mostly sexually attracted to men. Most men who feel that way in our culture identify as gay. I think you already know that though. You just want someone else to tell you and confirm it. So, yes, sure, you're gay. I mean, read your post back to yourself. You basically say, "I really enjoy sex with men, and I don't find sex with women satisfying. Do you think I might be gay?"
