Some guy who I think is interested in me all of a sudden started saying to me “STFU”, “Oh stop acting like a kid”, “I don’t want to hear that shit about not exchanging numbers...” Ummm...is this a bad guy? Warning sign of someone I shouldn’t be spending time with?
In my opinion, he sounds like a bit of an ass... sorry if that offends. But I believe that if you want to be with someone, romantically or otherwise, then be nice to them first and foremost. If he's not nice to you or doesn't treat you well, then obviously he doesn't care about you, which is the part that matters the most. On a completely separate note, there are those who get shy about there feelings and act a little douchey to not show that they like someone... but it's not exactly healthy mentality and it's not your job to decipher the things he says... In the end, the only important question is, are you interested in him?
I really don't think after all of that I would trust this guy.. __________ The title makes me think of this video..
If he's saying that kind of thing while still in the beginnings of courtship, get the fuck away. People are usually on their best behaviour when they're chasing you. If he's like this now, how will he be after he's caught you?
That sounds like a really bad sign. If he's showing that kind of hostility early on I doubt that it will get better. It's likely to get worse.
HA! So, the reason I ask is because I went out with him today! And believe me, no offence taken. He acted like he wanted a relationship and then was a total horndog! Didn’t mind that part (LOL) but I felt NOTHING for him because, as WE ALL figured, this guy himself is a MAJOR RED FLAG! I don’t feel bad not advancing this into a relationship in the SLIGHTEST! It was nice to kiss and shit LOL but he wants open legs, I would rather an open heart Thanks guys!
