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NON-existent dating life ...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by MannyJ, Sep 7, 2012.

  1. MannyJ

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    Basically my gay life is not alive .. If that makes any sense . I'm not out yet but even if I was there are NO gay people where I live . And also just because a group of people share the sane orientation doesnt mean theyre automatically going to be friends .. Anyway . I want fay friends but more importantly I want a boyfriend to :frowning2: . I'm so lonely . How can I get this engine up and running ?
     
  2. Pret Allez

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    I would try online dating sites. I live in a small town in a conservative, rural state, but I can still find queer folks. They sort of come out of the woodwork, ya know?
     
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    You're not the only one in this situation or who feels like this..
    As for anything to help.. sorry but I have no idea :frowning2:
     
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    Also, where do you live anyway? I'd be surprised if queer dating truly is non-existent there.
     
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    Hopefully this changes soon :frowning2:

    ---------- Post added 7th Sep 2012 at 08:30 PM ----------

    Well I currently live in New Jersey .. But I have been thinking about moving to NYC . Which would hopefully spark my gay social life and pursue my music career . But idk .