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...But I have a girlfriend?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Jordash, Sep 23, 2012.

  1. Jordash

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    Alright, so I told my older sister, 17, that I was gay and was dating one of my friends. So she knew I was gay. But I also told her when my girlfriend had broken up with me. But now we're back together, but she asked me not to tell anyone yet, so I haven't. So I'm really confused.
    My sister keeps trying to get me to go out with this guy I play drums with. But I'm not attracted to him at all, and I have a girlfriend. But my sister knowsI'm gay, so I don't get why she is trying to make me go out with him. Is she trying to turns me straight because she thinks I'm single?

    I know this was a bit all over the place but... I'm really confused and some advice would be great. Thanks.
     
  2. darlig ulv

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    She might be a little bit in denial, just explain to her that you want to be who you are. Either that or she's trying to get this guy somehow.
     
  3. GoinStag

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    Your sister needs to mind her own business, dude. It's one thing to be supportive, but Jesus...it's your life, not her's.