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Should I tell them about her?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by ALaMoe, Sep 26, 2012.

  1. ALaMoe

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    So I've slowly been coming out to a few friends this week, and I'm hoping that it will all culminate in me telling my parents. They haven't ever expressed anti-gay sentiments before so I'm really nervous, but not super concerned.

    One thing I am concerned about however, is my girlfriend. Do I tell them I'm already dating someone when I send them my coming out letter? I want them to know because she is the primary reason I want to come out now, but at the same time I'm more afraid they will be wary that I'm dating someone I met online, regardless of how many years I've emailed, texted, called, and skyped with her.

    Do you think it is safe for me to still tell them I'm with someone?
     
  2. LauraMarie

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    I would wait and see how they react and then maybe tell them o: just so its not to much info at once