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Gay..or not?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by TheUndiscovered, Sep 26, 2012.

  1. TheUndiscovered

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    So as some may have saw I have had some problems with my sexuality.. In order to kind of "convince myself" that I was gay I would look at pictures of guys and girls. When looking at pictures of guys I find them attractive but never get any further arousal. Once when I was looking at some pictures of girls I got a random erection..I'm confused because I'm not attracted to wemon. I wasn't gawking at them or anything I just randomly felt really aroused. I don't find girls at school attractive or anything so was wondering what you guys could make of this? :I
     
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    has happened to me, but i'm bisexual, maybe you're bisexual. i find some girls i don't know extremely attractive and some men i know very attractive but for some reason not so often the girls i know seem attractive
     
  3. NicoleV96

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    Maybe sexually attracted to women, but emotionally to men?
     
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    haha, i think you just sorted me out pretty nice. thanks NicoleV96
     
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    Perhaps so? I've always been attracted to guys, though so maybe it's a bit of a phase. Time will tell, I guess.
     
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    It happens to me sometimes. Not all the time though. Like every once in awhile, my "gay" turns off and I look at girls for about a day or two and feel straight. 90% of the time though, it's gay.

    could be Bi,

    Or as stated above, emotionally attracted to guys and sexually to girls.

    That would be interesting
     
  7. TheEdend

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    Depending on your age, the random erection could be just that, a random erection.

    When I was a bit younger I would get an erection from watching any type of porn because it was porn, it was new and it was exciting.

    If you say that you have always been attracted to guys, and you are having to look at both guys and girls to make sure that you aren't gay then more likely than not you are leaning more towards gay. Of course that's just me speculating and only you can say for yourself.

    Either way, bi, straight or gay its totally fine. Try to enjoy it :slight_smile:
     
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    The thing that confuses me is that girls online don't catch my attention or even on TV but when in reality I keep looking and get a nervous feeling but I think its just because of my questioning
     
  9. TheEdend

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    That could really well be an explanation.

    The thing to focus here is how you react to guys compared to girls. I'm guessing that you feel much more emotions when it comes to guys than with girls, right? If that is it, then you are probably either gay or bi leaning towards guys.