ok well lately i have been thinking about guys like how straigh guys would think of wemon i think of guys and i keep doing that for about a week then i end up thinking about girls for abit. ive liked a few guys before (including my bestfriend) but i can never keep liking them for more then about a month anyone got any advice like if youve had the same experiance or if you think im gay cause at the moment im just not sure:help:
Who could you see yourself being in a physical relationship with? Do you fantazise about women or men? You could be curious or possibly bisexual depending on those questions you answer o: I myself was kinda in denial myself for about hmmm a couple months. I came out to my parents as lesbian and then a few months later i came out AGAIN that i was bisexual lol i lean mainly towards girls but i once in awhile have a crush on a guy. Some bisexuals are split 50 50 others maybe 80 20 ish. just depends on how you see yourself -shrugs- it will most likely take awhile to fully accept yourself and once you do you'll know i would just kinda figure out where you are right now in your sexuality because trust me i know it can be 100% confusing at your age it gets better
As a good friend once said to me: "It's not who you are attracted to, it's who you fall in love with"
It seems to me that you are in the early stages of questioning. I spent most of high school questioning and in denial, it can take a long to figure if you are gay. During the first part of high school I had crushes on girls and not on guys, but it was the guys who I wanted to see naked and have sex with. Even after I realized I was mostly likely gay I didn't get crushes on guys, probably because I went straight(no pun intended) from questioning to denial. I didn't have my first crush on a guy until very recently. There is no need to rush into picking a label for your sexuality, work it out at your own pace. Do you see yourself spending your life with a man or a woman? And are physically attracted to men or women or both?
I think you're questioning as some other people have said, there is nothing wrong with that. It's part of the process. Just think about it, and do you have a close friend or family member that you could talk to?
