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Bad Idea?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by pinklov3ly, Sep 30, 2012.

  1. pinklov3ly

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    So, I was at my local gas station grabbing some snacks, but they were all out of what I really wanted. So, I asked the cashier if they had any in the back and that's when it happened--he told me to ask the girl who also works there. She was absolutely stunning :eek: I couldn't help, but stutter a little bit. However, there's one issue, she's of Middle Eastern descent and I'm assuming that she's Muslim as well. I know that homosexuality is not condoned according to their culture. Would it be bad idea to ask her if she likes women? I visit that store frequently and I'd hate for things to be awkward afterwards :dry:
     
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    I would think just outright asking a stranger what their sexuality is is a bit umm...upfront? :grin:
     
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    Well, since I'm loud and proud, I like to get straight to the point. I've done it before, but the girl was my ethnicity and straight. She was totally cool about it and I put a smile on her face. Rejection hurts, but I took it very well. My family seems to think it's a bad idea and I'm starting to think the same.
     
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    Idk. Maybe be her friend first? It might make it easier to find out what you want and not come across as a creeper. :lol: Anyways, yeah, that's one option. Or just be blunt and see where it takes you. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Best of luck! :thumbsup:
     
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    Oh no! I don't want her to think that I'm a creeper :icon_redf I'll try befriending her, but I don't get to see her often. And I think her father's the cashier so I'm not even sure anymore :eusa_doh: