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I am worried

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Kcaz12345, Oct 1, 2012.

  1. Kcaz12345

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    Ok so I am worried I have a bf and he has in the past threatend to slap me and if I don't tell him something that he will not talk to me and I just want to kno if this fighting is part of a healthy relationship but he has not only threatened to slap me but he has done it to and we have broken up and gotten back together It must of have been 4-5 times now so I just wanna kno if I need to break it off or keep on trying:help:
     
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    He's physicaly abusing and threatning you. No it is not okay what so ever. You need to get out. Fast.
     
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    If he's physically abusing you, you need to get out. Period. It's not part of a healthy relationship. You deserve better.
     
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    Break it off. Now. And make it clear that if he approaches or touches you again, you will call the police and report him for assault. There is never a justification for physical (or emotional) violence in a relationship. Not ever.
     
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    Ok but this has not happened since our last break up he hasn't done it since
     
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    So he did it and will sooner or later so get out asap.
     
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    Leave the relationship. Physical and Emotional abuse is wrong and unhealthy. If it was true love it would not happened. Love does not threaten in any way shape or form. Arguments are a given, but abuse, no.
     
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    Ok I think I have made my choice