My friend is secretly dating a guy he thinks i have no clue that they are dating and I am not going to say anything. But my friend is 21 about to be 22 and this guy is 36. Maybe I am just new to the gay crowd, but I do not think this is ok. This guy is also in the ,ovie industry and makes lots of money. So he goes pretty much between city to city to shoot films. I just deep down feel like he is using my friend. This might be because I have a huge crush on my friend. But I do not think so. My gut tells me this guy is using my friend. So I geuss my question is how old is to old. I know my friend is putting his heart on the line. and I would hate to see him hurt by this guy. What do you guys think. is this awkward or not????? I also think it is mostly a physical relationship. My friend goes over ther to "hangout" once a week on sat night. Then he comes back sunday afternoon. I just feel like he deserves more!!! what do you think???
Mmm... At 21/22 your friend is really old enough to be responsible for his own decisions. It might be best for you to take a step back and let him make his mistakes his own way. We all have to learn the hard way sooner or later.