I've recently started realizing how unhappy I am having sex. I only like self pleasuring. I like the idea of a significant other, and even some kink, but I get annoyed when someone starts playing with me, or even kissing. I know there's a lot more than just slapping a label on something or someone...it just dawned on me though that there's a huuuge category of orientations.
Well if you are, it's fine! Maybe your right hand was made for you! I have a friend that's like that, he's really chill! It's okay, I think it's just who you are! Or it could be you don't feel ready for sex and your not comfortable for who you are...look into it a little good luck!
What I really mean/need is advice. Is that waht asexuality is? I mean, I still have a desire to be intimately close to someone, i just wanna be the only one to get myself off...