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Could I be asexual?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by preacherskid83, Oct 3, 2012.

  1. preacherskid83

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    I've recently started realizing how unhappy I am having sex. I only like self pleasuring. I like the idea of a significant other, and even some kink, but I get annoyed when someone starts playing with me, or even kissing. I know there's a lot more than just slapping a label on something or someone...it just dawned on me though that there's a huuuge category of orientations.
     
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    Well if you are, it's fine! Maybe your right hand was made for you! I have a friend that's like that, he's really chill! It's okay, I think it's just who you are! Or it could be you don't feel ready for sex and your not comfortable for who you are...look into it a little :slight_smile: good luck!
     
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    What I really mean/need is advice. Is that waht asexuality is? I mean, I still have a desire to be intimately close to someone, i just wanna be the only one to get myself off...