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Don't know what to say

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by ItsAllConfusing, Oct 4, 2012.

  1. ItsAllConfusing

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    So my roommate told me tonight his girlfriend's friend Kelly wanted to meet me. He is trying to set me up. I'm not out to anyone yet and don't know how to respond to him. Any ideas would help....
     
  2. Lance

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    A good response is that you aren't looking for a relationship right now.
     
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    You can say you don't have time to be in a relationship.
     
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    Tell him your gay... JK I had to say that but..... um ya, no say your not interested in a relationship right now or like they said you don't have time for a relationship right now.
     
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    Yup, I'd advise you the same thing as what everyone else has said: just say you're not interested in getting into a relationship right now. If he insists, just ask him to respect your choice and to please not keeping trying to push it.
     
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    He knows I have never "been" with a girl. I think he is just trying to get me laid as blunt as that sounds. So now I really don't know how to respond....ughhhh