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Does my guy friend like me?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Cameron1221, Oct 6, 2012.

  1. Cameron1221

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    hello. this is gonna b a long post but I hope u
    keep on reading. I am a bi dude n I want to
    know if my friend likes me more than a friend.
    he asks a lot of personal stuff like my interests,
    girlfriends, feelings etc. (even abt
    masturbating) n sometimes he likes to hold my
    hands when we walk beside each other
    (playfully of course). I also seem to notice that
    he steals glances at me from afar n he always
    smiles at me. I don't know whether he is gay or not. he did tell me that he changed schools bcause lots of girls liked him in his previous school. He moved to an all male school before he goes to the same college w me. the thing that makes me
    doubtful is he only talks to me whenever he sees me (at college that is, we never hung out n never texted me whatsoever) n
    when I asked for his number he didn't
    straightaway gave it to me but eventually he
    did. also he hasn't accepted my request to
    follow him on twitter. so overall do u think he
    likes me? I appreciate ur answers.. this thing is
    eating me up inside.. I didnt like him at first but
    he starts to grow on me. I think Im in love w
    him. everday I think abt him.
     
  2. Lance

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    Well, there really isn't much to go by here. It doesn't sound like you guys have a very strong friendship at the moment either. I would first try to establish a more solid friendship with him and see how things go over time. During that period you can get to know him a lot better personally and maybe figure out if he is in fact bisexual or gay. At that point it would be a more appropriate time to gauge whether or not he could be interested. For now though, get to know him, hang out with him, and see what develops. Unless you have more stuff to add, the holding hands is about the only thing that puts up a red flag, but other than that, I can't say whether he likes you or not honestly.