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Everyday problems: interacting w girls

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by gaYMich6el, Oct 6, 2012.

  1. gaYMich6el

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    Hey yall. I went into school today (saturday) and i had a meeting with a (really very nice) girl in my class, because we were paired in teams to discuss contracts for a professional practice class

    So aaaaaaaanywayyy......

    I dont date girls, but I have the distinct impression that she likes me? Sort of? She was acting flirty and definitely giggling a lot, i noticed

    Shes sort of small and cute, and Im a big guy who doesnt look the "stereotype". i think it definitely created sort of a false chemistry.

    Anyway, we finished our meeting and walked out into the parking lot. I think she wanted to keep talking, and I was uncomfortable and left quickly. I looked back and she looked sad. (We also have another meeting tomorrow)

    I think this is sort of a recurring problem. Im sitting here in bed thinking about how i probably avoid social situations of all types, so I dont have to discuss my sexuality. Im not really ashamed, Im just not the one who talks about that kind of thing.....

    Does anyone else have this problem??????
     
  2. LauraMarie

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    Ya I do that a lot at my new school I only have normal conversations with my crush/bff rylee :astonished: everyone else I tend to try to get out of a conversation because I feel awkward o.o so ya I do the same thing but if your bi/straight you should maybe try becoming friends with her atleast o: she seems like she's into you ^^ my crush is short and cute and I'm tall and awkward o: but she dosent even notice:slight_smile:
     
  3. Gen

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    Sadly, you cant.

    Does being straight stop you from finding a guy attractive? Not quite. She will like you even if she knows about your orientation. There isnt a way to stop people from having hope.

    But I know what you mean. Its not even that hard to tell I am gay, and they are still all over me. It does break your heart a bit to see them upset over it, but brutally put, its a part of life. I mean, according to the saying they created, you were either going to be gay or taken anyway. :rolleyes:
     
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    Hi, I am a married man of 33. I have noticed even in my young age that I am not comfortable with maintaining a friendly relationship with girls (apart from certain kinds which have no risk of sexual attraction). Although I am fine with my wife, I still have problems with other women. Lots of women gets attracted to me but after a few days the relationships collapse. And I feel a kind of unrest. Is this a personality/emotional management problem?

    I have also noticed that I do not understand women's tricky language immediately. Sometimes I understand it after few days, when it is too late and she is gone. In short, at the very onset, women come to me with huge interest and within a short time, their interest wipes away. I understand their is problem within myself, but I do not know what is that. Does anybody have any suggestions?
     
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