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I'm freaking out!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Zach12345, Oct 10, 2012.

  1. Zach12345

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    so if you've seen any of my posts before i said i was telling my friend i was gay like month ago well that didn't happen. and tomorrow we were going to hang out and since tomorrow is national coming out day i was gonna tell her. well we can't tomorrow and i texted her saying i just needed to talk to her about some stuff tomorrow and then she insisted i tell her i told to look up what tomorrow is but she just said to tell her so i typed "Ok so you're the first person i've told this to and i'm being completely serious and i'm not joking. tomorrow is national coming out day and i wanted to tell you wile we hung out i'm gay"
    SHOULD I SEND TIHS?????
     
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    If you think that you are ready then go for it!!
     
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    If you feel ready to and if you also feel she'll take it well, then yes.
     
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    Well I did it! I'm like totally like I don't even know just such a mixture of emotions words can't even describe it.
     
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    I am very proud of you. That took mass amount of courage.
    You just got over the hardest part. :slight_smile:

    Now, regardless of her reaction ..
    Just know that it gets better.

    & If you are feeling really down about it,
    or about coming out to other people..
    Google searchh the It gets better campaign,
    do a small amount of research & feel better.

    Life is great when you don't have to hide the very things that make you happy. <3
     
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    Awesome!! I hope that it goes well!! Let us know how she reacts!!
     
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    She said she respects me and is here for me and is glad i told her. Which was probably the reaction i was expecting including her first question so do you like anyone?
     
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    (*hug*)(*hug*)

    Sweetz. I'm very happy for you. I hope you can breathe some relief now.
     
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    That's awesome!! I'm glad that she reacted well!
     
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    thanks guys!
     
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    Congratulations! Even having just 1 person know who you can be yourself around makes a HUGE difference in how you'll feel. :grin:
     
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    Congratulations! :slight_smile: