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Really personal..

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Lessard, Oct 11, 2012.

  1. Lessard

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    This is really personal but I want to know what u think. I have a bad habit of sending nude pics of myself to strangers. Other men and woman. Do u think what I did was wrong and that it's going to bite me in the butt one day? I'm trying to stop but it's like a addiction..
    Let me know what u think.. :icon_redf
     
  2. Raindrop

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    I don't mean to sound rude but it's not the smartest thing to do. I've never sent nudes to anyone but my one friend did and everyone knows. She gets dirty looks and people will talk to her and hint that they and she's just being full out bullied. She now is having issues with self-harm so yes, I believe there is a 99.99% chance it will bite you in the butt but it is your decision. I'm sorry if this seeed but it's my uncensored, honest opinion.
     
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    While I don't think it's terribly wrong to do this, the fact that you do this towards strangers isn't a very good idea. Even with people you know, those photos could end up in places you don't want them to end up. And with all the technology around us these days, those photos would not be able to be deleted forever.
    I just don't think it's a very smart idea, it may be a good idea to talk to someone about why you feel you need to do it though. They may be able to help you find some answers.
     
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    That probably isn't the smartest idea. Especially since once you send a text message, picture, ect., it is on the internet permanately. You should probably get away from your cell phone for a while. Try not to use it unless it is an emergency. Just my advice. :grin:
     
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    I just want to add that sexting is illegal in the US and might be in ontario as well. I'd check that out.
     
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    Sexting is only illegal if you or the other person are under the age of consent
     
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    Ok then and ill take ure advice and stay away from my cell for awhile I deleted all my stuff already
     
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    Well, that is a very bad idea about sending nude pics to people, if they are sexual in nature. Unless you are a nudist and sending nude pics doing normal activities, then eh...who cares. There are many nudist who don't mind letting other seeing themselves nude.

    About the effect, it depends. If you are not aiming to be famous or go into politics or anything, chances that it won't be that big, people are more excited and blow up stuff about nude pics of celebrities than normal people. Some embarrassment will ensue though of course, like how some people will find you in the future as an ad on a porn website. More seriously, you may have problems with your job, whether you have one or look for one. If your boss found out about your nude pics, it will be rather awkward working with them.