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Flirting; how can you tell?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Luke Matt, Oct 16, 2012.

  1. Luke Matt

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    I think this guy is flirting with me.

    How can I tell?
     
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    I don't know but maybe like hitting on you? Why is he saying? I'm told all the time I'm a flirt and I don't even know how
     
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    Lots of emoticons/laughing. Lots of compliments etc.
     
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    It sounds like flirting :slight_smile:
     
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    Lots of these as well -> :wink:, ;P. Is the winking insinuating something?
     
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    I'd say so. But I do that to everyone lmao IM a flirt lmao
     
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    Oh this is so easy. Just say, "Are you flirting with me?" Catch him off guard but keep it light, make it a jokey feel.
     
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    Try flirting back and see if they quickly change the subject or stop replying for a while.
     
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    I flirt with some of my straight friends, they either don't realize it or they completely overlook it. When you're not focused on something, that's what happens. So if you just acknowledge it, it'll blow him away. If he looks confused, then he's straight. If he tries to make an excuse or stumbles, you got em.. I like catching guys off guard. :slight_smile:
     
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    Actually, I like what Pat's said: just ask, but in a good mood. Be like, "hey, can I ask, are you flirting with me?" If they avoid the question, yet acknowledge it, it's a yes. If they say yes, it's a yes. If they say no, they're lying.

    Because winky faces and subjective compliments does indeed equal flirting. Are you interested?
     
  11. Sounds like flirting to me. It's worth asking, if not then hopefully it's amicable and you can laugh about it. If so, hopefully you laugh about it anyways, and hopefully the flirt is welcome!
     
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    Too much of a question. lol. Just say, "are you flirting with me?" blurt it out. And see what his response is lol. If it's in the form of a question, he has too much time to think about his response. You just have to have the balls to blurt it out. I'm very good at this.. haha. And don't answer any questions in return either. If you ask one, he answers one. If he says, "why do you ask?" " Are you going to answer my question? " If he says, No or anything other than "I'll answer the question" then completely and utterly drop it. It'll KILL his ass. If he's straight, he's not going to want to send that vibe. If he's gay, it's going to make him want to be up front. If it just confuses him either way, go back to playing. It's not that big of a deal to ask.
     
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    I would say that is definitly flirting.
    BUT im told im ALWAYS flirting , half the time I don't even know I am xD
     
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    You could also say, "If I didn't know better, I'd think you were flirting," if you don't wanna be so blunt about it.
     
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    Works even better.