Moaning/moaner is this a bigger turn on during sex?

I didnt vote.

The reason is because this gives the false idea that it is naturally cuter if you moan. Making noise during sex is absolutely dreadful when it is not natural. Many people that attempt this end up yelling when their partner simply breaths in their direction. Its not attractive at all.

So, I would say that if you have to think about it than never do it. Its always obvious what is real and fake.

 

Okay, so you like moaning.

I don't get the point of this to be honest; some people will like it, some people won't. I find it annoying personally; the only upside I see to it is it (generally) shows that the people involved are actually into it.

 

Well, as with every other thing regarding sex or a relationship, you do things for you, not the other person. Compromise is okay, but not to the point you give up your values for them.

And seeing as this should only come up when you're actually in the middle of the act, I don't think this is going to affect whether or not you are/will be a virgin.

 

This is a binary poll, so I didn't vote. No vocalization should ever be forced during sex. On the other hand, I don't think that spontaneous vocalization should be resisted. Simply because you can't. Or at least I couldn't...

 

"Girl-ish" moaning, no not hot at all and annoying. A "masculine grunt" with light dirty talk, yes that's hot.

 

Agree, and agree.

A little masculine groan out of pure pleasure is.. hot! :icon_roll

 

i'm also a virgin, and i too, like the idea. Like most others on here says, for some it is a positive switch to go into overclock, while others get irritated (different results for all different people). but i can imagine that naturally occurring moans, groans, grunts, ect that are born out of utter ecstasy (rather than faked) would tell whomever that they/you are stimulating their partner(s) pretty well.

i'm sure others can tell you more from their own XP since, at the moment, i don't have any... other than w/ myself :lol:.

 

Every body is different, every body likes different things. Some people like to moan during sex and some don't. Some people find it a turn on and some others a turn off. But it also depends from the situation, where you're having sex, how long you've been with your partner... You'll discover that some things that were a turn of for you one day can be a turn on a few days, or weeks, or years later, either with the same partner or with another one.
The only thing that matters is to keep in mind that having sex isn't a porn show.
If you're genuinely feel like moaning helps you to be in touch with your body, your partner, your own personal experience of sex, then that's perfectly ok to do so. It will be natural and I'm sure your partner won't have any issues with this. But if you want to moan just because you think that it's required and/or to impersonate a porn star, then that will feel fake both for you and for your partner and it's likely that it's going to make your sexual experience more awkward than enjoyable.

 

Well, I don't know about men, but for me, I assume that if someone is moaning they're genuinely excited. I've never done it with another girl, but if I knew they were really into it and moaning or making some sort of noises, it would turn me on knowing my partner was turned on or I was doing something right.

 

I think making a noise is better than silence!

 

Natural moans are incredibly hot. Part an affirmation you're doing something (or your partner is doing something right to you ) and part just... dirty? I can't explain it.

But as it's been said, fake ones are just bleh, on the level of porno "dirty talk" (you know what I mean, the way too vocal actors).

 

Sure, it's ok if Im really sticking it to you lol. no pun intended. If it's fake, instant turn off.

 

I was comparing fake moaning to the cheesy mid coital yelling of dirty things. Its... cringe worthy at best in my books. I never did get the appeal in those pornos for that