I had completely decided I was gay. And then last night I went on a date with a boy. And I had to control myself to keep it in my pants. I'm not worried about labels and I know sexuality is fluid and all that but HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED BEFORE? ---------- Post added 20th Oct 2012 at 08:47 AM ---------- Now that I think about it a little more, it's like I could have him in my life romantically.... as long as I had a girl there too. I'm not sure he could completely fulfill me but maybe if I was dating a girl too.... Idk. Help meeee
Hi there! It happens that we become aware of different attractions and feelings at different times/stages of our lives. Even though you are gay, that doesn't mean that you can't develop an attraction or feelings for a guy at some point. Maybe try going on a couple of more dates with him, and see what happens to your attractions for him. Try to get to know him better. As you do that, you will gain a better sense of what your feelings/attractions that you have at the moment mean, and how they fit with what you already had learned about yourself.
I dont mean for this to sound mean but Why did u decide to go on out with him in the first place if ur gay ? Have u ever thought that u could be bi ? But what ever u are it doesn't matter and label don't either.
