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Alright, um, help?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by JakeHas, Oct 22, 2012.

  1. JakeHas

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    Hey everyone! I've only come out to 2 people as bisex. my girlfriend (whome of which didn't break up with me when I told her!) and one of my mother's co-workers I trust for various reasons. I've been wanting to tell my sister somehow but I have no idea how she is going to take it! I dread coming out to family, this will be difficult. I am 14 (yeah, young, deal with it <3) and my sister is 18. We have a pretty goo relationship that siblings could get, but I have no idea how to tell her, when, or even where! Can you all give some ideas that I could use in order to successfully tell her?
    Thanks!
     
  2. jaysuss

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    I thought day in and out about coming out to my sister and that really built up my confidence. I thought of questions to ask her and to find out if she loved me. I did this at night because that way if it didn't go as planned I would just fall asleep. I had simply brought her into my room and sat her down.
     
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    Tell her in a way that you feel comfortable when you feel ready. A song, a poem, a letter, a video, a quick "I like guys and girls" a full on sit down conversation. If you need to see her reaction ask her about that kind of thing. Refer to an lgbt celebrity or friend.

    I'm bisex/asex (which weird to be) and out to one person and I'm bisexual and I don't know how I can ever tell my brother. I know it's not exactly a vote of confidence but I thought you might like to knoe that I can relate.
     
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