SO, after i came out to my friend I thought I would feel better, which I did for a while. but now I am having questions. Mainly the question is, am i really gay? This seems so stupid I like guys so obviously I am gay but I still look at really pretty women like I am straight, I dnt know if this is means maybe I am bi or maybe I just don't want to admit to myself that I am gay. ugh this is so confusing. WE should all come with a how to guide when we are born
Do you have an honest desire to have a romantic and sexual relationship with a woman? Do you ever fantasize about them or just mostly men?
I can personally say that after I came out, yeah, I did start questioning myself all over again just because having other people know made it all so much more real. Like reality hit me and I thought, is this really happening?? But for the most part, you should know what you like. I'll be able to appreciate a guy's attractiveness, but I don't have the same feelings towards them as I do for a girl. You know? It might get confusing but go with your gut.
lol I was watching the other day House M.D. and the character of Omar Epps was on (Dr. Foreman) and was like: "Damned! Am I really gay??" and then Dr. 13 (Olivia Wilde) came along and I was like: "Oh, yeah... I am". LMAO!! Seriously, read about the sexual spectrum. Kinsey nailed it! I'm 4-5 in the Kinsey Scale. I do feel attracted to some guys (yes, both sexually AND emotionally); but I still consider myself a lesbian. Google Image Result for http://images.sodahead.com/polls/001802801/2322569885_kinsey_scale_xlarge.jpeg ---------- Post added 23rd Oct 2012 at 03:47 PM ---------- Kinsey scale - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Google Image Result for http://withfriendship.com/images/d/17954/Kinsey-scale-wallpaper.gif This one is more clear. Or maybe you're bi-romactic, but homosexual.
when I first came out to my immediate family I had second thoughts but I then went through everything again and took my time and came to the same conclusion every time before take your time and let things digest oh and after I told a few friends of mine, I had more second thoughts, then someone from an LGBT meeting reminded me its the same as with my family hope this helps, my XPs
