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Some Advice Would be Lovely

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by CalebCael, Oct 26, 2012.

  1. CalebCael

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    Okay so basically, what do you do if one of your friends of the sex you have no interest in shows interest in you? I mean, while going out with a guy for a while is possible for me (unless they're asexual) there's no way it could ever last. I mean, I'm reeeeeally terrible at rejecting people, because it's a rarity where I ever need the skill as no one ever show an interest.

    I just would like to be able to explain the situation, with a close friendship still in tact... Or is that just senseless idealism? I don't even know...

    I guess the real thing is, how do you reject a friend, and still have your friendship in tact?

    Thanks in advance for any advice!~<3
     
  2. danni91

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    Just sit them down, and just tell them how you feel. Tell them that you still want the friendship and you think having a relationship will jeopardise what you have. I know it's not as easy as that, but It's better than just saying you don't like them that way!

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