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Coming out to friends...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Haley M, Oct 31, 2012.

  1. Haley M

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    So, I've been wanting to tell some of my friends about my little secret but obviously am too afraid to do so. Basically I am worried that the news will spread on its own which I don't want to happen. I really want to tell friends that are female first because I feel it's easier to talk to other women about it but I'm just afraid I'll either lose a friend or have to news run like wildfire. Does anyone else have this feeling?
     
  2. Yuliya

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    Fear never leaves You untill You'll start tell your friends about your try feelings... You should to choose what You want: be yourself with friends or someone else because of fear...
    I was afraid that my friends couldn't understand me but I tryed... and we're still friends)))
     
  3. Haley M

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    I did tell one if my friends once and we are not as close anymore. That's why I'm kinda scared! Although I do think the next person I tell should definitely be another girl.
     
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    it's look like You think about this a lot and it makes You unsure... sometime it's better stop thinking and You'll fell wright person and wright time to tell... and I believe this girl still be your friend)))
     
  5. Haley M

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