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I need help!!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by jman, Feb 9, 2008.

  1. jman

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    there are 2 people i like one on this web site and one at my school and i like them both i just dont know what to do can anyone help me?
     
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    Well, we know one of them's gay; what about the other one?
     
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    have you talked to the one at your school?
     
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    What exactly do you want help with?
     
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    Umm... definately go for the one at school that you actually know lol. Because I'm pretty sure you don't know the person online as well and it's sorta awkward because they're online and it seems just easier going out with someone from your school.
     
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    Get to know the people better. Go with the guy at school if you can, as you'll get to know someone better in person than online.

    A relationship is about personalities not cuteness/hotness. As you get to know the people better and they get to know you, maybe something will develop.
     
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    thanks to all i will use your advice
     
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    i just dont know who to pick
     
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    The one at school, I think. You probably already know him better than the person here.

    It would be worth getting to know both better though and see how it goes. Friends are good too!
     
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    not really b/c i know he is gay but he dose not know i even exist! plus i couldnt b/c he is in 11 grade and im just in 9 grade!
     
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    I'm in 11th grade and I've had lots of friends that date freshman. I'd probably get with a freshman if he/she was mature enough.
     
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    even me?
     
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    Uh. O_O

    Are you mature? lol, cuz if yes, then yes, I might.